I was posed this question on my mission in Cambodia. We were driving on a large passenger bus from our worksite to the hotel. A young boy, about the age of eight, was the young man that presumed to ask me the simple question. He was so intense when he asked me. He so badly wanted to hear me say, "yes...I am very happy."
He desired to know how I was doing. But instead of assuming that I could be good, bad, ugly, or in between, he immediately began asking if I was happy. He jumped straight to the point- down to the heart of what he was asking. He didn't desire to ask how I was. He wanted to be certain that I was happy. His platform for my "attitude" was already elevated to a level of happiness.
Why was this? Probably because he saw our environment in a better light. He understood that I was on a mission, praising the name of Jesus in a foreign country. He understood that I was among brothers and sisters in Christ. He understood that I knew Christ. So, of course I was happy, right? He just wanted to clarify it with me.
Suyen taught me something. We as Christians are called to be happy, because he have reason to be happy at all times.
1 Peter 3:10-11
"People who want to live a full life and enjoy good days must keep their tongues from saying evil things, and their lips from speaking deceitful things. They must turn away from evil and do good. They must seek peace and pursue it."
To live a full life we must expect happiness, and pursue positivity. Even in the midst of depressing and discouraging events we are continually being restored in His presence.
JOB 33:26 He prays to God and finds favor with him, he sees God's face and
shouts for joy; he is restored by God to his righteous state.
Often in church we will hear that there is a vast difference between joy and happiness. Instead of focusing on the semantics of the words, I believe we as Christians should thrive in the absence of fear and the absence of discouragement and the absence of the grave. If we do not have death and hell to ponder, then what keeps us anything but happy or joyful?
Now we must ask this one question though: why is it important for Christians to be happy? It is less important for us to be happy because of our temporal wellbeing as it is to reflect the joy of Christ to a lost generation. The reason we must remain joyful and happy is because others will desire to know more of Him from a joyful person.
Recently, at a Chris Tomlin concert, Chris stated something that will ring true in my head far longer than his catchy and God-glorifying music. He stated, "brothers and sisters, tonight when you rest your head on your pillow, LISTEN! Listen to the sound of the angels praising our father in Heaven. If you listen close enough you will hear them shouting, 'Holy Holy Holy is the Lord God Almighty!' Let us remove distractions from our lives that do not allow us to hear His praises!"
For me, it is removing pessimism, discouragement, darkness, and literal words from my vocabulary. It is listening to the praises of angels before we fall asleep. It is sitting in the midst of nature and realizing that a fallen man could not create such splendor. It is allowing ourselves to be overwhelmed by His goodness every once in a while. He wants to show us how great, mighty, and present He actually is. Imagine if His children listened! And, imagine if we as His children sang His praises in happiness, in joy and in truth.
ISA 12:2-3 Surely God is my salvation; I will trust and not be afraid. The LORD, the LORD, is my strength and my song; he has become my salvation. With joy you will draw water from the wells of salvation."
Missions allow a moment for me to embrace pure, raw joy. To remove myself from the mundane and the distracting. Suyan knew that even when we was not "on" a mission, he was on-mission. He was continually on mission. And a part of that grand mission, was living in happiness and living in joy. He gave me a little nudge when he asked me, "Are you happy?" It was an affirmation of faith. I could imagine him saying (if he knew all of the complexities of the English language), "C'mon Alexa...Let's put a smile on your face! Life is short...the harvest is bountiful yet the workers are few- Let's show this world how great of a God we have."
So, now I ask you. "Are you happy?" Have you listened to the praises of angels recently? Have you forced a smile on your face because you know that being temporarily uncomfortable will not allow your faith in His majesty to be overshadowed? Others will know him through your happiness. And, as men and women in Christ, it is our duty to keep others mission minded, and grounded in the truths that will eternally provide happiness.
Isaiah 55:12 You will go out in joy and be led forth in peace; the mountains and hills will burst into song before you, and all the trees of the field will clap their hands.